Christiana Ijede's post on Goodwall - People seem to not know what relationship is all about and what it can positively do for them.. learn how to use your relationship with other people to your advantage and you gain the highest height of confidence in life... Tip Don't look for distractions, look for people with potentials. Don't date people that are still heart broken and still haven't healed, then later you blame them for treating u badly whereas you knew in the first place.